
I am turning to all you moms out there to help me out if you can. It has been 6+ months since i have had a good night sleep. And most nights, I average getting up 4 times a night. I am slowly questioning if I will every sleep again. (I know I will, but not anytime soon). So, here is what is happening....
Child #1 (3 year old boy) = he gets up every night at 3:30ish. He doesn't' have to go to the bathroom. He just wakes up, yells "mom", I go in and say "it's okay, go back to bed" and he rolls over and goes back to sleep. (But now I am up and it takes a while to get back to bed). This has been going on for months now and it is consistent every night. How do i get this to stop? Any ideas?
On the positive side, he used to be getting up at 6;00 am, so that wake up call has stop, thank heavens.
Child #2 (6 month old boy) = he typically wakes up after 4 1/2 hours of sleep and I have to let him cry it out and he eventually goes back to sleep and then wakes up after 6-7 hours (but typically 6 hours). I feed him than and he goes back to sleep. I know he can sleep at least 7 hours (because he has done it before (usually once a month he sleeps through the night), but I think it is an answer to prayers, more than anything.
If I let him cry it out, it usually works for about 4 days (we sleeps and doesn't wake up until 6 hours) but then we start all over again and he wakes up after 4 1/2 hours and I have to let him cry it out again. A cycle that has been going on for months.
Any ideas on this one? Am I alone out there with a baby that "Crying it out" doesn't work long term?
Please help this sleep deprived and tired mom!
On a good note my first born is still asleep and it is 9:30 am... why can't they all sleep like her!