
Life with a toddler has presented some difficult times. I feel like I am punishing and getting up set more than I am laughing and having fun. I have to remind myself constantly that although I need to continue to teach my daugher what it means to obey and to behave appropriately, I also need to continue to have fun and recognizing"TV commercial moments". You know the ones... where life looks perfect! Like the latst Rice Krispies commercials with the mom and daughter in the kitchen enjoying the cereal and hugging. Perfection! Luckily, I think we all have those moments in our life where you can step back and think "that would have made a great Rice Krispies commercial, because the moment was perfect!
So, I have been trying to recognize those moments when they occur, to remind myself that being mom isn't always hard, but there are great moments too. Now, don't get me wrong, I love being a mom and I love my children, we are just going through the
Terrible Three's and it is a bit hard right now. But this too shall pass, but until then... these are the moments I cherish!
1) Hannah and I were in the car and she was trying to tell me something. I kept tryign to guess what she was saying, but couldn't figure it out. I kept trying to repeat her, but she would say "no" and repeat it again. After guessing about 15 times, I just started laughing so hard. I couldn't for the life of me figure it out. I just kept laughing and then she starting laughing - you know the belly laugh-kind. I am sure if anyone looked over and saw me, they would have thought I was crazy, laughing so hard by myself.
2) I had stubbed my toe and layed down on the bed in agony and pain. Hannah could tell that I was hurt and jumped up on the bed and grabbed my foot and kissed it. And looked at me and said "you be okay now mommy!" And believe it or not I was. Probably because she put a smile on my face and made me forget about the pain.
3) My favorite moments are when we are reading together. All three of us girls on the couch. Ella in my arms and Hannah snuggled up next to me. And another great moment is when Hannah gets on the floor next to Ella and reads to her. Those are moments where I think - TV Commercial moment for sure.
4)Hannah greets my husband every evening when he comes home from work with a big running hug and always yells "Daddy". it is the cutest thing. Well, since I am always with her and hardly gone, I don't get the same loving responses from her. Except on Sundays. Hannah goes to nursery (which is her favorite thing about church, of course) and when church is over, she finds me and comes running into the room and yells "Mommy" and gives me a huge hug and shows me what she has made that day. (and then she is off to play with the other kids). Sundays are great, because I get my LOUD, ENTHUSIASTIC greeting from Hannah.
5)And of course anytime she is dishing out hugs and kisses. Those are the best moments a mom can have!