Sunday, May 16, 2010

Activity Days - Modesty Lesson



This last week for activity days, we had a lesson on modesty. We discussed what 'Modesty" was and what clothes were modest and which ones aren't. We discussed why we have these guidelines for wearing modest clothes and how we could make immodest clothes more modest. We did "Head, Shoulder, Knees and Toes" and taught how it can help them remember to be modest. When you touch your head, does your shirt show your belly? Shoulders: are they covered? Knees: are your skirts or shorts touching your knees (or close to it) and Toes: when you bend over, does your shirt show your waist and are your pants showing your bum?

Then we had two pieces of cardstock (one for modest clothing and one for immodest clothing) and the girls made collages out of the different clothing they cut from magazines. It was a great lesson and much needed for the girls. Not that they are immodest, but they really got into the lesson and asked many, many questions about what was okay and not okay to wear. As they cut out clothing they asked all kinds of questions and how they relate to them and their wardrobes.

I handed out this quote for their binders and then I gave the girls pop rocks with this tag attached to it.

(The guitar image isn't my creation and now I can't find it on the web.) I feel bad not being able to give credit to how created it). If someone knows were it came from, let me know and I will add a link).

8 comments:

Laurel said...

you are unbelievably creative and you make me want to be an activity day leader. I wonder if it's ok to request a calling ;)

Heather W. said...

LOVE IT~ Just found this blog, I was sooo out of ideas. Thank you thank you. I can't wait to do this one!

Tanya said...

I love your designs and fresh ideas! Thank you for sharing!!

Annalee said...

Great lesson! I'm teaching it today!

Rachael M said...

I really like this, and the other modesty paper dolls post. I think I will combine aspects of both for my girls tonight!

Lisa said...

Love this!! Thanks for sharing. Using it today.

Mina said...


I hope you all include how we should respect the choices of others and caution against finger pointing towards people who are dressed differently. How you think about and treat others who are different from you is much more important than dresses or shorts of any shape,length or size.
Too many people I know have been badly wounded by the modesty police.
Sometimes you think you're holding on to the rod, of iron, but if you look closely at your thoughts and actions, you'll see that you're actually in the spacious building!

Please read and digest this very wise article
http://ldsmag.com/the-problem-with-overemphasizing-modesty/

Sonja said...

Love that!! Rethinking how I will be teaching my Activity Day girls